How To Turn A Woman On, Satisfy Her In A Big Way, And Get Her To Do The Things You've Always Wanted

To begin with, I want to remind you of the differences between how
men and women approach and experience sex.
To set the stage, I first want to talk about “experience.”
As humans, we use our five primary senses to take in information
about the world. This is called “Perception.” Most of this happens on an
UNCONSCIOUS level.
We then take what we get from our senses and we process this
information. We compare it to what we’ve experienced before, we classify it,
we imagine it in different ways, and we have UNCONSCIOUS reactions to it.
Next, we make decisions about what we’re going to do with what we
just experienced. Again, these are mostly UNCONSCIOUS.
Finally, we take action on what we decided to do. You guessed it...
again, mostly unconsciously.
This description is oversimplified, but I think it’s a useful model to
work with here.
Basically, I believe that men and women go through these four stages
a little differently. And when it comes to sex, I believe that they go through
them much differently.
I mention this because most people deal with other people the way
that they want to be dealt with. They communicate in ways that make sense
to themselves. They usually assume that they know what’s best for others
without checking first.
This only makes sense. Most people don’t walk around saying to
themselves “Hmmm, I wonder if Sarah tastes the same thing as I do when
she drinks coffee?” and “I wonder if water tastes exactly the same to her...
or if it’s just slightly different...”
Most people have asked these questions once or twice in life, but they
usually stop asking once they decide that most people have the same
experiences as they do when they drink coffee, etc.
Here’s the deal: When it comes to most ‘gross’ experiences (meaning
common level) like getting hit with a baseball, tasting salt, or seeing a color,
we as humans usually have pretty similar experiences.
But when it comes to ‘subtle’ experiences (meaning less extreme, and
in this context, also more complex) people, and especially different genders,
have vastly different experiences.
For instance, if you show a man and a woman a picture of a Victoria’s
Secret catalogue, the man will usually notice all of the women, while the
woman will notice the clothing, including the colors and the details.
Finally, the order or sequence of experiences and thoughts have a
major role in the responses that men and women demonstrate.
In the area of sex, men are usually pretty simple: See hot woman, get
turned on and want sex. All in about 1-3 seconds. A man can be outside
working on his car and see a beautiful woman out of the corner of his eye,
and instantly be in the mood.
On the other hand, women are a bit more complex. Even if a woman
sees a handsome man, she will RARELY get sexually turned on. The first
thing that women experience when they SEE an attractive man is usually
more of a curiosity or intrigue... a wanting to know more.
If a man smiles at a woman, the woman usually interprets the smile as
“Hi, you look nice and friendly.”
If a woman smiles at a man, the man usually interprets the smile as
“I’m interested in sex.”
This one difference causes many first meetings to go the wrong way.
Here’s the deal: In general, it takes women longer to get in ‘The Mood’
for sex, and it happens differently than it does for men.
As I talk about sex and how to do it better, you need to keep this in
mind. Some of the things I’m going to tell you might sound like just
‘interesting’ ideas, or unusual things to do.
Not so.
While they may be interesting and unusual, they are all specifically to
appeal to the female mind and mating preferences. 50,000 years ago
women had to figure out some way to determine if a man was going to be a
good provider and a loyal mate.
I believe that the concept of ‘Romance’ was that way.
If a man was really interested, he would go through some
demonstrations of his devotion... and be willing to wait for sex.
And so it goes. Women love things like ‘taking your time’,
‘anticipation’, ‘sensory rich experiences’, ‘romantic talk’ and ‘foreplay.’
I know, I know. We all want a woman that gets turned on by just
seeing your unshaven face and dirty hair in the morning. But these are the
cards we were dealt, and we might as well learn how to play them in this
lifetime.
Onward.
So I just mentioned a bunch of ideas. Let’s tie them together.
As far as the senses go: In general, women get turned on by a few
major categories of things:
1. Voice tone, sensual (not sexual) language, and vivid descriptions.
Women love to hear a sexy voice describing ideas, feelings, and
scenarios in painful detail.
2. A wide range of different touching, kissing, stroking, caressing, and
cuddling.
3. Smells and smelling. Women love great cologne. And women love
to be smelled.
4. Tastes. Women love to be fed all kinds of wonderful things like
Strawberries, chocolate, and champagne.
Did you notice anything missing from the list?
I left out SIGHT on my list. Why?
Well, women don’t get turned on as much by sight as they do by other
senses. Men are usually more turned on by visuals than by the other four
senses combined.
Women are turned on more by the others.
It’s true that what you look like can PREVENT you from being
attractive due to not taking care of yourself, not being her ‘type’ or
whatever.
But I believe (and have proven to myself over and over) that if you
pave the way correctly, you can overcome looks and get a woman VERY
sexually stimulated by using her other senses and her imagination.
Next I talked about how women notice details. Women notice subtle
things. If you rub a woman’s hand, she’ll feel warm and friendly toward you.
If you very very gently and slowly run the tips of your fingers over her
hand, she will begin to get aroused (other conditions have to be right, of
course).
If you kiss a woman on the lips and stick your tongue down her throat,
she’ll probably be disgusted. But if you kiss her gently... then slowly pull
away and look into her eyes... then kiss her again slowly and gently... you’ll
start a fire inside of her that will build (if you do everything else correctly as
well).
I also mentioned romance. To me, romance is simply demonstrating to
a woman that this whole encounter and ‘relationship’ with her is meaningful.
It’s a way of saying “I want to create a great experience for you” to
her. If you play up the romance too much, you’ll push a button inside of a
woman called “He loves me and wants to marry me.” So be careful.
I recommend sticking to the kinds of romance that involve the senses,
and not the kind that involve money, gifts, and love letters. There’s nothing
wrong with these... it’s just that they lead to the M word. If you want a wife,
great. If not, use care and stick to the senses.

SEXUAL POSITIONS "THE CONCEALED DOOR" position. Variant 1

The woman lies on her stomach. Firstly, she encompasses her thighs, preparing

her to take him up to the hilt. The man, who lies on woman, insinuates himself
inside her moisten vagina. Then she draws her legs, letting the man's thighs to
encompass her legs. Deeply anchored in her vulva the man cuddles her,
stroking her back, hips and breasts. The woman can contract her vaginal
muscles in order to stimulate her lover's desires even more and she can tune
these contractions with the man's thrusts.

Still in the same position, the man can also penetrate the woman's anal
opening if he knows that she loves anal penetrations. Here the woman should
relax her sphincters in the best possible manner. The man has to have full
control over the penetration of his penis into the warm and constricted opening,
which she offers him with love and trust.

In this position the man can bite the woman's neck and also can caress tenderly
her breasts, while thrusting even deeper.

This position is proper for raising the sexual energy and sublimation it in pure
love. To achieve this elevated emotion - pure love, during this position the
lovers have not to concentrate to the genital pleasure, but they have to
concentrate their attention to the heart area and become conscious of the flying
feeling that this position produces. If the lovers abandon them to the flying
feeling they feel that they are immersed in an ocean of pure love.